Last night I had a heart warming and intellectually validating moment as Niko helped me to convince Eddie to come inside on returning home from our evening walk. While Eddie coming
inside is nothing new last night he was very stand-off-
ish with me. I have been introducing some noisy new
phenomenon into Eddie's lexicon. He seems to increase his safe distance from me in response to my new and noisy behaviors,
such as
snow-blowing the driveway (3 days ago), chopping firewood with the increased vigor required by larger rounds, to more vigorously
disciplining Tilla as she rudely tried to grab Eddies treats, to wearing my more comfortable
gortex jacket, to skiing yesterday for the first time. Even simple things like change clothing type, from cotton to
gortex for instance, alters my
acoustic signature, not to mention the clicking sound of my cross country
ski bindings during heel strike every step. So after all these
new and different sounds he was extra wary of me. Interestingly he clearly still felt comfortable near Niko, perhaps even hanging closer to Niko for re-assurance. I have come to believe that having
Niko for Eddie to model his behavior has been
absolutely crucial to Eddies progress thus far.
Yesterday Eddie would not even approach me close enough to take a treat, which he clearly wanted, until he heard Niko take one and began munching. He would not take a beef from me last night even though he heard happy
munching sounds coming from Niko. after about a minute of clearly trying to overcome his fear, he began shacking and then Barked. He gave a moderately loud single bark, so I waited about 15
seconds and then put
the bone on the snow. He jumped back when I dropped it but approached, after I walked away, tentatively grabbing and removing it to a safer distance before munching on it. He really tried to overcome his trepidation about me but in the end he could not and probably would never have taken the bone. His safe distance seemed to be about 10 feet.
I may be pushing him to fast but I need to socialize him soon so that I can get back to my nominally normal routine, which includes earning a living etc. I am beginning to construct a mental model for his thought processes, which for lack of better words, seems to be a balance between fear and comfort. As he encounters new
phenomena mainly noises he
classifies them as potentially dangerous and fears them until he has enough experience to reclassify them as safe or at least not dangerous. During the reclassification process his safe distance will decrease, as long as he an exit route, toward which he will reflexively jump if any unexpected happens. He seems to reclassify
phenomenon based on hearing it many times and correlating it with peace and quiet, praise, Niko's
disposition, treats etc. I think ti may be him taking him longer
than most dogs because he cannot use visual cues during this process. Whether in the long run his vision
deficit is helpful to his socialization or not is a question of some interest to me. In other words he may be going more slowly but perhaps he is building a more solid foundation.
At any rate B.S. aside. Last night with Niko's guidance, I came to appreciate the
mantra of Patience-Patience-Patience and the significance of time when communicating the limited canine vocal dexterity. On returning from our evening walk about 10:00 pm with Eddie still a bit stand-off-
ish Niko took the lead. Eddie sat down about half way up the driveway to the house. Niko and I continued until Niko stopped. We both stood and listened to the night for a minute until Eddie approached and
sat down 20 feet away splitting the distance between us. Niko moved closer to the house as I followed. We stopped and waited for Eddie until he moved a bit closer now within 20 feet of the house. Niko and I then moved to the
other side of the house and stood listening for about two minutes until Eddie
joined us. After Listening for a few minutes until Eddie proceeded up on the deck and then bailed. So after some more listening and slowly shifting
positions Niko led the way up onto the deck with Eddie following. I followed but Eddie noticed and bailed moving past me off the deck as I was reaching to close the gate. Niko came back off and we continued to listen for a while until Niko again
went up onto the deck and stood halfway to the door. I stood by the gate with Eddie sitting about 15 feet away. After about 30 seconds I praised him twice and he stirred but did not move. After about 10 seconds I took a long casual yawn whereupon Eddie got up and padded onto to deck with me following and closing the gate behind. I walked past Eddie and opened the front door as Eddie scampered inside and into the loft. Niko remained
outside on the bean bag bed.
Niko had been acting as a translator,
communicating my desire to go inside. While I would just say lets go inside speaking human, Niko translated that by braking the request into small steps waiting as long as it took for Eddie to understand and comply. It seemed more like Niko was inviting Eddie take the next step and then waiting until he made up his mind. I realized the extreme politeness and patience which takes time and thus perhaps saves face (in the Japanese sense). Niko had taken my desire to go inside and broken it down into small
pieces and moved and waited in terms Eddie could understand. I felt really
privileged to witness this clear communication between all three of us, probably an educational experience for all of us especially me.